Sunday, August 16, 2020
I'm still finding it very difficult to accept that Bob has passed from this life. Robert would not want me to grieve, so I'm trying to have my tears be those of happiness, affection and prideful memories of our time together. My big brother Bob was always there for our family, and especially me, through the best of times, and the trying times. Certainly not a surprise for all who knew Robert, his wholesome heart, his unquestionable, loving kindness for family and friends. Far too many fond memories to share, but several stand out. Truly great memories include, our family visits to Washington DC and the Pentagon, when Bob was serving in the Air Force, and especially to Hawaii when he settled into his remarkable civilian life. When back in Kenosha, Bob often took me to Milwaukee and Chicago to enjoy shows, museums, restaurants and parks, mostly being that caring big brother trying to keep his little sister out of mischief. Bob was always so much fun and exciting to be around. However, the greatest joy was when we lived together in Hawaii and shared the sun, beaches, and great friends. Later when we were back in Kenosha, Bob became the best Uncle that my son Henry could ever hope for. He continued his enthusiasm for life, leading by example, sharing his affection, time and travel with Henry and I, including visits to Diamond Head, Tacos, Las Vegas and Hollywood. Even when we couldn't be together, with Bob being an such an avid movie watcher, book-worm, and music aficionado, Henry and I so enjoyed our long phone calls centered on these experiences. Obviously, Bob was a man of immeasurable character.
I am so proud of my Brother, a fantastic son, a carpenter, a Vietnam veteran, a world-traveler, an artist, a man of culture, a photographer, a businessman, an athlete, an outdoors man, a minister of kindness, a homemaker, and a funster. But most of all as my friend and big brother. Bob was a rare individual, so smart, compassionate, knowledgeable, imaginative, diligent, creative, yet so laid back as a clever, fun-loving, free spirit with a tireless zest for life, who could and will keep me mesmerized forever.
Bob shared his life with so many people, Most important was his loving partner and soul-mate, Kenton. Kenton completed Robert, they were a tremendous duo together. I am very thankful that Kenton made Bob so happy throughout the many years they were together. Bob was fortunate to have Kenton through "thick and thin", and I am forever grateful for all his loving efforts.
My love for my Brother will never pass! I already miss Bob more than can be imagined, but he is in my heart and soul, and I will cherish our beautiful memories forever. I know it was time for Bob to leave his worn-out body. It is very hard to let go of Bob in this life, however, I look forward to that great day when we will reunite with the rest of our family, by the grace of God!
On Bobs families behalf, I would like to thank all the friends, doctors, nurses and caregivers that assisted in Roberts care.
Love you always, and rest in peace Robert!
Your loving sister, Shirley May
